It seems the issue of orgasm in a marriage is generating a lot of talking point as many women who have written in to SexVille Tuesdayappear to want us to keep talking about that subject.
Like one lady wrote the other day, “you guys are on point on the orgasm thing but it is still a pity that our men in these parts of the world do not want to learn. Please keep educating them; don’t stop till our husbands know that sex is not just climbing, thrusting and grunting while we lay there not knowing what is happening and just when you are set to start, they are done and turn their backs on you.”
It is on the back of this that we have decided to continue with our ‘Big O’ discussion. On SexVilletoday, we bring in another sex expert, Dr. (Mrs.) Stacy Lugard to show us some steps that we all can employ towards our quest for that big ‘O’. I am sure you are going to enjoy her lecture.
"Sex pleasure in woman is a kind of magic spell; it demands complete abandon; if words or movements oppose the magic of caresses, the spell is broken."
Scents of Seduction
Having an orgasm starts with feeling aroused. And like I would put it, no arousal, no orgasm. Arousal begins in the brain, specifically the limbic area where the sense of smell intersects with emotional process, our memory store and our sexuality.
Vibrations of arousal and eventually orgasm, lives in the body and are triggered in the brain.Trust your sense of smell and indulge your olfactory in whatever scents turn you on. When trying to achieve an orgasm, there are many different things you can do to get there.
You can by giving yourself seductive baths in preparation for his coming home. Make sure you ensconce yourself in some sexually arousing scents that will arouse his olfactory system which is foundational to the art of love making and I dare say, this will be to your great advantage.
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